How To Avoid A Bad Kissing Experience
When your kissing nothing is worse then bad kissing, so the first thing you need to look at is your breath, this is the biggest problem you’ll have. Fresh clean breath is key, don’t overlook this, also using way to much tongue and slobbering all over someone is another big no no. You’re kissing them not cleaning them. Having the right tempo or pace, don’t be moving your month and tongue a hundred miles an hour. Start out very slowly and work into a gentle pace. If things heat up you’ll naturally begin moving your lips and tongue a bit faster. Just remember you’re not in a race your kissing. Be sure your eyes are closed and your mouth is slightly open once you start to kiss. Having your eyes wide open and a big tight grandma lip pucker is a bit freaky and a huge turn off.
You can also try out different techniques of kissing. Put together a list of all the different types of kisses you can think of and try them out on one another. Your sure to fine some that both of you enjoy. Learning new kissing technique is fun and adds some romance to the relationship. Be open to learning some new kissing techniques. You can avoid being a bad kisser just by talking with your partner and asking what they like. He or she will appreciate that you care enough to ask and shows that you care about their wants and needs.
Asking yourself and finding out what you like or don’t like about certain types of kisses is the next thing you’ll want to do. This doesn’t have to be hard but a general rule is making sure the right mood will fit for the right type of kiss. Meaning you wouldn’t want to be getting all hot and heavy on the first date if your trying to make a good first impression.
Don’t compare somebody’s kiss to on old flame. Your new partner has different wants and needs and you need to be mindful of them. Get to know them. Ask them how they like to kiss. Believe me people love to share there thoughts with others and if you build that trust they will share theirs with you.
Perhaps you’re not the best kisser yourself or maybe you’re not kissing your partner the way he or she would prefer. If that is the case, just check out their body language. These little subtle moves can tell a lot about what someone wants and likes. As I said before try out new techniques and talk openly with you partner. Finding out what someone really wants and likes is much better and you’ll avoid trying to play the guessing game. Don’t just assume someone is going to like the way you kiss because you do.
